Even though we’ve come a long way in our journey to sexual empowerment, many women still have a stigma attached to masturbation: it’s a private activity that is certainly not talked about, let alone performed in front of another person, so i don’t blame you for feeling a bit self-love-shy. Think about those times when you were the most turned on you’ve ever been and focus on those scenarios in your mind. This makes it the powerhouse of pleasure. Putting on a show for your partner will show him that you’re comfortable with your body and in your sexuality, and will make you feel even more powerful as a result. Making a peace sign with your hands, place each finger on either side of the outer labia. Confidence is sexy, and there’s nothing sexier than a woman who knows exactly what she wants and how she wants it.
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You can also just move your fingers in and out without touching the clitoris; it’s really up to you. So here are some real-life masturbation routines from real-life women, because we’re all different but we all love some solo exploration. Three minutes of furious clitoral rubbing, usually while thinking about some cute british musician from the ’90s.